Is Courtney Stodden welcome at your Church?

What if Courtney Stodden came to your Church dressed like this?  Would you be okay with it?  Would you welcome her?

Courtney Stodden made waves this week as she attended a Church service in this little black dress.  The 17 year old newlywed is not shy and has drawn much attention over the past few months with her provocative tweets, fashion choices and her decision to marry a man who is 34 years older than her, but that’s not what matters here.   What matters here is how we would respond to her.

When this article came up this week, my husband found it and asked me how I would feel if someone walked into Church dressed like this.  My first response {and I admit it’s not good} was that I would likely want to laugh.  Now it’s not what you think, I wouldn’t want to laugh at her but instead at the horrified faces I’d expect from some congregants. Lately I’ve been supplying in much older congregations where Courtney would stick out like a sore thumb.  On Sunday they notice what I wear and make comments on how my suit looks on me.  This  dress would definitely attract attention. I’m not sure what their response would be to someone dressed like this but I’m fairly certain it’s not as warm and accepting as I would like.

The thing is, I shouldn’t have to question whether she would be welcomed.  I shouldn’t be reading articles questioning her faith based on what she wears.  She should be accepted, loved and nurtured within the confines of the Church.  She should be included and cared for so that she might see that her value is more than her sexuality or looks.

As Christians we need to move out of judgement and into love.  We need to be like Jesus and seek out those who are lost, hurting and offer them what they need.  As a Church we’re struggling to discover why no one wants to come and perhaps part of the problem lies within us.  We only want to include those who we know.  We only want people who will fit in our mold.

It’s time to break the mold and start looking at the world as Jesus would.  We need to see past the outside and seek out the hearts of those around us.   This video says it all.

Banana Muffins

Banana muffins are one of my all time favorite things.  I adore bananas in baking and yesterday when I saw three lonely bananas hanging from a hook, I knew I had to use them.  My traditional banana bread recipe has too much fat to be considered healthy (although it is delicious) and the alternate recipe I used instead was missing that special something that banana bread requires.  Here’s my new, improved recipe.  It retains the flavor of the original but is much healthier!  If you ever find yourself with some over ripe bananas that need to be used, this is the recipe you should try.  Enjoy!

Banana Muffins

Ingredients:

  • 3 ripe bananas (the riper the better!)
  • 1/4 c soy milk
  • 1/2 tbsp apple cider vinegar
  • 1 c cane sugar
  • 2 c whole wheat pastry flour
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1/2 tsp baking soda
  • 1 tsp baking powder

Instructions:

  • Preheat the oven to 350 degrees.
  • Line a 12 c muffin tin with liners and lightly spray with baking spray.
  • Mix soy milk and apple cider vinegar together and set aside.
  • Mash the bananas.
  • Add the sugar to the bananas.
  • Sift the flour, salt, baking soda and baking powder today.
  • Add the dry ingredients and the soy milk mixture to the bananas.
  • Stir the ingredients together until well combined but do not over mix.
  • Fill your muffin tins and then bake in the oven for 23-27 minutes or until done.
  • Enjoy!

Extra Instructions:

  • When you are cooking with no fat the liners can stick to the muffins.  This is why I spray the liners before filling them with the mixture so that removal is easy when you want to eat.
  • Feel free to add chocolate chips, nuts or other additions to make this recipe your own.
  • Do not overbake!  Seriously!  Because there is no fat in them they will dry out quite quickly if left in too long.  Watch them closely.

Our Tree {Part One}

Yesterday we put up our upstairs tree.  It was hilarious as it was X’s first experience watching it happen.  Last year the trees miraculously appeared on their own and he thought it was incredible.  He clapped, shouted yay and generally just enjoyed the experience.  One of the things I like about this tree is that it’s our family tree.  There are all kinds of ornaments and decorations that don’t really match but have meaning.  It’s got multi-coloured lights and it’s marvelous.  Totally tacky and not at all designer but that’s what the basement tree is for.

There are all kinds of ornaments on the tree.  We have the nativity scene, hand carved and bought at a 10 000 villages sale bought while I was at seminary and only had a tiny 24$ foot high tree.

There’s this random Cartman ornament whose origins are unclear yet each time I pull it out of the box, I laugh at the absurd quality of it and it’s obvious difference from the other ornaments.

And then there’s this one.  Peace.  A part of a set of four given to me for buying a Christmas book many years ago.  I love how they shimmer on the tree.

These ornaments are a collection of memories and experiences from years past.  This year as I’m out and about I’m sure I will collect a few more and it will only serve to make it a more special, unique tree.  We will make new memories this year and find different ways to express the hope and joy of the season.  As we do, I will look to our tree and remember the years past, grateful for all we have done and all we have yet to do.

In Advent we wait…

In Advent we wait.
We wait for a baby who’ll grow into a man.
We wait for the messages he’ll teach,
for the hope he’ll provide,
for the peace he’ll offer.
In Advent we wait in hope, for the hope that only he can bring.

Mug Cozy

I did it!  I made a mug cozy.  I’ve been working on some crochet projects over the last couple of weeks and have really enjoyed getting back into some crafty things. I finished a scarf, worked on some coasters and then I saw a picture for a mug cozy.  They are all over Etsy right now and I didn’t want to purchase one as I figured I could make my own.  It’s not perfect but it’s cute and I made it!  I’m quite thrilled.

My Grandmother taught me to knit when I was young and it was difficult.  I am left handed so everything was backwards and she worked so hard to find a way to teach me.  Every time I pick up my needles I think of those hours spent learning with her.  I’m a much better knitter than crocheter but she also taught me the basics of crochet so I have her to thank for this Mug Cozy.  Her instructions as well as the time we spent together are moments I will cherish forever. I doubt my Grandma will ever know how much that time meant to me but I am profoundly grateful to her for giving me the gift of her knowledge and love.

A Vision

I’ve been thinking about this video constantly since I watched it earlier this week.   I was struck by a few things about what this Church is (or wants to be):

  1. It’s relational.
  2. It’s intentional.
  3. It’s meaningful.
  4. It’s focused on Christ.
  5. It’s about what’s happening now, in the moment.

My denomination (the Presbyterian Church in Canada) wants to know what vision we (the people) have for the future of the Church.  Here’s my vision:

  1. It’s relational.
  2. It’s intentional.
  3. It’s meaningful.
  4. It’s focus is on Christ.
  5. It’s about what’s happening now, in the moment.

Shocking, right?  I want a Church that actually means something to people today.  I want us to shift our focus from retention and survival to one of worship and mission.  I want a place where people I know feel comfortable coming and would want to invite their friends.  Also, I wouldn’t mind coffee in Church.  I’d rather enjoy that.

The thing is, Church to me is not about a building, a denomination or a history.  Church to me is about Christ.  It’s a place where I can go to worship in community, dive into the word and find a way to give back to the world I live in.   It should be a place where people find comfort and support.  It should be open and willing to change to serve the needs of the people who are seeking.

I am Presbyterian. But before that, I am a follower of Christ.  My vision for us involves intention.  It involves relationships.  It involves following Christ as we live intentionally in relationship with one another.  My hope for our future involves us rediscovering Jesus’ teachings, following his example and living this life in the world, unashamed and ready to share.


Random Thought Thursday: November 24th Edition (and a Happy Thanksgiving to my American Friends!)

  1. Happy Thanksgiving to my American Friends!  To those of you who may be Canadian, happy random Thursday in the middle of November when there happens to be football on the television, amazing sales in stores and a general sense of the festive everywhere you go.
  2. My attempts at learning to crochet aren’t going terribly.  I’ve finally got the hang of it and my tension’s not that bad.  Looking forward to the scarf being finished so I can wear it.  The yarn is incredibly soft and I’m in love with the colour.
  3. I can’t believe it’s so close to Christmas!  The Advent Project begins in less than one week.  Please join in!  It’s fun, free and hopefully will add some meaning to the season.
  4. This week I will be attempting to make peppermint sugar cookies.  If they are good I will definitely post the recipe.  I may also attempt some gingerbread.  I have the best gingerbread recipe but it’s quite fussy so I’m hoping to simplify it and still have cookie heaven.
  5. I’m hoping to end the day with a little National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation but if it doesn’t happen, it will before the weekend is through.  Enjoy this time.  It really is beginning to look at lot like Christmas!

Looking for Holiday food ideas?

Last night I had a few ladies over for an evening of food, drinks and conversation.  I had a wonderful time and really enjoyed myself.    

‘Cause I’m super nerdy I love to set a nice table even when people are just coming over to relax and have a good time.  If you look at the back of the table, on the top left corner you’ll see a dip that is absolutely delicious.  Sure cookies are great and fruit is always popular, but if you really want to please a crowd that Layered Taco Dip is an excellent place to start.   I was inspired by a layered salsa dip from a local store and the delicious Cheesey, Oozy, Guacamole Bean Dip recipe from Alicia Silverstone’s book “The Kind Life”.  I hope you enjoy it as much as I do!

Layered Taco Dip

Ingredients:

  • 1 can refried beans
  • 3 avocados
  • 2 tbsp lime juice
  • 1 small (250 ml) container nondairy sour cream {I used tofutti)
  • 1 tbsp taco seasoning
  • a handful of diced jarred jalapenos
  • a handful of sliced olives (green or black)
  • 1 small jar of salsa (approximately 1 – 1 1/2 c)
  • 2 c shredded Vegan Cheese (daiya is my favorite)

Instructions:

  • Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
  • Spray the bottom of a small square baking dish.
  • Spread the refried beans over the bottom of the pan.
  • Peel, pit and mash the avocados in a small bowl.
  • Mix the lime juice with the avocados and spread on top of the refried beans.
  • Mix the sour cream and taco seasoning together in a small bowl.  Spread over the avocado mixture.
  • Sprinkle the dip with the jalapenos and olives.
  • Cover with salsa.
  • Top with cheese.
  • Bake in oven uncovered for 20-30 minutes or until heated through.  The cheese should be melted and the mixture bubbling at the sides.
  • Serve warm.

Extra Information:

  • Obviously this is made without dairy due to our dietary restrictions.   I am sure you could substitute regular dairy products and create a lovely dish.  I have however served this dip to many omnivores (and a few who would call themselves carnivores) and no one has complained.  It’s so good.
  • You can make this earlier in the afternoon and bake it just before people arrive.  It makes things even easier.
  • We serve this with baked corn tortilla chips.

I could tell you…

As I sat on the couch last night fretting over my fantasy football team and wondering if a comeback was possible I realized something very important.  Like Tim Tebow, my boy Tom Brady also points to the sky….

But that’s not what I’m writing about today….

I’m not sure what to write about actually.  I could tell you that I grooved in the car yesterday to a random mix of music that spanned the 80′s, 90′s and today (courtesy of my iPod).  I could tell you that I ran around picking up party supplies, ordering fruit trays and looking at yarn.  We could discuss the realization I had I really need to be busy and how much I love napping.  Instead I think I’ll leave you with this, a beautiful song that I listened to today.  I have been known to pray through music and today during my reflection time I listened to this.  It resonated with me.  Blessings to you as you travel through your day, I pray you find something that resonates with you.

Easy Baked Tofu Scramble

Tofu has become part of my diet.  It snuck in during the university years when I hit up the local Chinese restaurant.  I allowed it into my home in the form of desserts and puddings.  But until recently, I’d never made a Tofu scramble.  I just didn’t understand it.   I loved scrambled eggs.  What would make me want to try a Tofu scramble?

There were two reasons that this happened to me.  The first (and most important) is that X. has an egg allergy.  As he cannot eat eggs, we have not been eating eggs.  The second is that we’ve adopted a Plant Based diet and that has opened my eyes to a new world of possibilities.  This tofu scramble is pretty good.  I’ve served it in many forms, with differing spices and each time have enjoyed it.  If you’ve never tried it, don’t be afraid.  It’s tasty, easy and an excellent emergency dinner solution.  I hope you like it!


Easy Baked Tofu Scramble

Ingredients:

  • 1 lb firm or extra firm tofu, drained.
  • 2 tsp onion powder
  • 2 tsp garlic powder
  • 2 tsp dijon mustard (sometimes I just do a generous couple of squirts from the container)
  • 1/4 – 1/2 tsp cayenne pepper (depending on your heat preference)
  • salt and pepper to taste
  • 1/8 c dried parsley

Instructions:

  1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees.
  2. Prepare a baking dish with cooking spray.  You can use a small 9X9 square pan or a pie pan.  It’s up to you.
  3. Crumble drained tofu into a large bowl.  Aim for small bite size pieces.
  4. Add dijon mustard, garlic and onion powders, cayenne pepper, salt and pepper and nutritional yeast (if using) to the tofu.
  5. Stir until combined.
  6. Add the parsley.
  7. Pour the tofu mixture into the dish.
  8. Bake in the oven for 20-25 minutes or until the tofu begins to brown.
  9. Stir once while cooking for even browning.

Extra Information:

  • This is one of the most versatile dishes we make.  I have added chopped leftover sausage and tomatoes and served it for dinner.  You can add fresh spices, sauteed mushrooms and any other vegetables you like.  There are so many ways you can dress up this dish.
  • I love fresh parsley in this but my parsley froze in the back yard and I didn’t have any on hand.  Feel free to substitute fresh, chopped parsley.
  • If you’ve never drained tofu, don’t fret!  It’s very easy.  Wrap your tofu in a clean kitchen towel and set on a cutting board on your counter.  Layer another towel on top.  Place a heavy book on top of the wrapped tofu and let sit for approximately 30 minutes.  Unwrap tofu and use as instructed.  I use an extra towel to protect my books but you might not be as concerned.
  • If you’re feeling really ambitious feel free to chop some garlic and saute up some onions to throw in instead of the onion/garlic powder.  This is a quick, easy version but it’s also delicious with a little extra effort added.
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